Va' Lone-Times day'

hahhh... two more days to valentines day, which also means that i am also celebrating my 5th year of being single..Yaayy!! (trying to sound happy) .. ok ok ok.. back to business where i will "Chai" (step) onto those that celebrates valentines day! the where "i love you" is said constantly:

tell the magic word *

Just because that i cant celebrate it, so i condemn it.. now.. valentines day.. as usual what comes to mind of the 'special people' that celebrates valentines day? the guy will always buy chocolate, take the girl out to movies, eat dinner, roses, cards, special request wishes....haiyohhh!!! every year also the same, not 'sien' meh??? think of something productive la..(which has nothing to do with reproductive elements, dont make valentines day into a 'father's day' for you next year) make her happy with new changes...

make your girlfriend happy!!

Guys... get some quality moments together with yer loved ones la (doesnt matter if girl or guy) why always with the usual boring stuff?! at least go get on a bike and cycle him/her along the park and enjoy the sweet breeze (sing the "tian mi-mi" song) ... but the youngsters nowadays are lazy... go up the stairs also cannot!! must take the lift! Walking at a park is good for valentines day (quality time generating) because there aren't alot of distractions around compared to a shopping mall, makes sense ok..the girls will be attracted by huge words "SALES", "DISCOUNT 70%", "NEW ARRIVAL" she wont even listen to what you are telling... and Guys also will be distracted with other people's girlfriends and then finally get a pinch or a step on the foot by your own girlfriend...

Girls girls girls... when celebrating valentines day.. dont la go and "Jual Mahal", when someone is asking you out on a date, doesnt mean that you will become his girlfriend.. spend la some time and have some healthy conversation throughout the night,,..,. haih..
things to be said when on a date

but beware that out there in the open, there are plenty of marketing schemes which are taking advantages of this valentines day celebration... pricing for flowers will increase two to three folds, and also chocolates which are wrapped in cheap gold paper will cost more that gold itself, not to mention restaurants that has signs like "valentines day special'' or "valentines night set" will charge like your father can print money with his butt... not to mention your current university, which will have like multiple students working their asses up to sell flowers, chocolates, teddy bears and etc to raise fund for their miserable clubs.. (go and study if you're free la!!!)

i dunno these people actually...

so valentines does not mean chocolate, teddy bears, flowers, dinner, movies or any other thing money can buy, valentines days is just a day to remind lovers that they are loved and will love.. it is a day when you just spend some time with your partner and forget about the world, forget about the time and live your moments to the fullest, thats all... if you are actually planning hard on events to be done during valentines day to make your partner happy, you dont have to.. just tell the person how happy you are with them, thus the magic will arise... stop using money as a form of love expression.. go enjoy sunset.. cook at home together and makan..... go cheap on money but rich with love...

such moments...

ps: i just think that valentines are supposed to be spent without any money, therefore happiness and love can be generated by you yourself and not your money..